It is always a pity when you look around you and notice that a lot of people are tempted to cheat on their partners. Often it is the case that people for years already have a good relationship and ruin it by cheating. It is a mistake that many make, because the temptation is sometimes very big, but even if that is the case, it can be avoided. The biggest temptation to cheat is cheating with your ex or someone that you trust.
An ex that is trying to contact you, with the pretext of wanting to know how you are, often has different reasons to contact you again. In most cases they are looking how you are and want to see if you are available. Once you are connected again with someone from the past, it can feel like it used to in the past and the threshold to sex is lower again. This is because you have a shared past together and this is why it feels so trusted and comfortable. Be careful of this, because before you know it, it will bring about problems for your current relationship. You partner will not appreciate that you are in contact with your ex. It is thus the best to let the past be the past.
Every relationship has its own ups and downs and often you then need someone to talk about it. Know beforehand who you trust, don't tell all your problems to the first person that acts like your friend. Because you are in a stressful period in your relationship, you are often very vulnerable. Someone can use this occasion to screw up your relationship even more. When someone has the wrong intentions, you do not see at that moment that you are vulnerable. The temptation is big when someone is pretending to understand you. After you have had sex, the true nature of the person arises. We are all human beings and something like this can happen. The best is just to avoid this as much as possible and discuss your relationship problems with your partner, or in the worst case with a psychologist.
When you are already in a relationship or marriage for years, the excitement can go missing after a while. This is not abnormal and it happens more often than we really want to admit. When you are feeling this is happening, it is best to discuss this with your partner. When you are talking about it you can start finding ways in which to bring the excitement back into your relationship. Here are a few tips to bring the excitement back.
Many couples do not need extreme measures to bring the excitement back. Sometimes experimenting with a simple toy is more than enough. Others simply enjoy it when their partner walks around the house in sexy lingerie once in a while. A few fun sex toys like a vibrator or a different toy can be fun for you to experiment with. You can find sexy lingerie everywhere, so surprise your partner once in a while. Wait for him after a long day of work, some make up on and sexy lingerie. He will definitely find this exciting.
Never stop flirting. This is a real golden rule for a successful long relationship. Even if you have been together for 20 or 30 years, keep sending a flirtatious text to each other once in a while. Or say something flirty. You don't have to do these things every day, but try to do it regularly, it keeps the relationship fun and it makes your partner happy. Nothing is worth more than giving your partner the feeling that even though he/she has become older, you are still very attracted and flirty.
Partners need to feel challenged from time to time. Therefore do not be scared to explore the borders with your partner. Your partner loves this just as much or maybe even a little bit more, but someone needs to take the initiative. Especially considering sex it is important to take turns in taking the initiative to do something exciting. Try to do a striptease show for your partner, our go to a couples club together. Try to sometimes get out of your comfort zone to experiment. This prevents boredom and singularity in a relationship.
Most fights start because of miscommunication, the one talks and the other is busy with his own thoughts that he only hears what he wants to hear, and before you know it there is an argument. Therefore always try to first listen to each other and not keep talking at the same time. Only by listening you can really understand and hear each other. Always be clear and express what is bothering you and only in this way you can clear up an argument.
In any case it is always important to give each other enough time and attention. Communication is an important aspect of this, in this way you create understanding and patience for each other and you learn to get to know each other better. But give each other also time and space for themselves. No other feeling is as bothering as the feeling that you are stuck to your partner and not able to live your life freely. give each other space and take some time for yourself. this is not only positive for yourself, but also for your partner.
To maintain the relationship and really go for it until death separates you, you can follow the following tips. We can of course not guarantee that these tips will work a 100% of the time. Because in the end you and your partner will have to work on the relationship yourselves. Only by working together and communicating, a relationship can be full of love, joy and become successful.